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Hi,

I am not Apostolic but I go to church with my aunt sometimes to her Pentecostal church. Lately my mom doesn’t let me go anymore because she doesn’t like the way their church believes. It's very sad! I just wanted to ask if you know anything I can do to try and get to go? I would really love to get in church and live for God!

Sincerely,

Wanna-be-Pente

Dear Wanna-be-Pente,

There are quite a few young people in your situation.  I've known some whose parents forbid them to come to church, as well.  And, through time, the Lord opened the doors!  Yes, I agree, it is sad.  And truly, if your mom won't allow you to go to church, you need to obey her decision.  At this time, all you can do is pray for the Lord to change your moms heart.  And, as long as you have the right spirit, she may change her mind through time.  Look at the situation on a brighter side.....right now, you may not be allowed to attend church.  BUT, if you put it in the Lord's hand, He will work it all out for the good!  You may not see results right away, but remind yourself.... He's working in ways that you can not see.  Remember....never stop believing in the  Lord!  And, keep a prayer life remaining close to Him!

Love,

Sis. Sandy

AG,

I want to be used by GOD to reach kids in my high school! I am the only apostolic girl in my school and was thinking of doing SEARCH FOR TRUTH bible studies! I'm scared of trying to get it approved though, and feel like I'm doing it all alone! What do you think I should do?

Sincerely,

Jesus' Helper

Dear Jesus' Helper,

God always honors those that want to be used to reach souls.  He'll open doors that seem to be locked, and bless those with a strong desire to do His work.  The "Search For Truth" Bible study  is a great way to get started. And, yes, the Lord WILL fill your mouth with the right words to say while witnessing.  It still amazes me how a question will be asked, and instantly, He provides the answer.  The awesome thing is, He doesn't just provide the answer, but provides it with much wisdom!  God is so good! 

And, even if you think you're in this all by yourself, KNOW that you're not alone.  We all feel that way oftentimes.   And, sometimes, the enemy will try to make us feel like we're spinning our wheels for nothing.  (Working for the Lord, and nothing is being accomplished.) Which is usually the first sign that we're on the right track....spiritually.  Believe me, you're being watched.  Just by your appearance and your Christian walk with God.  ( 1 Peter 2:9  "But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a peculiar people, that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.)  YOU may not notice being watched, but others notice you.  So, the next time you feel "all alone", remind yourself that you're on the right track.   And, ask the Lord to lead you to those who are hungry for Him.  And, while doing that, to give you strength and confidence.  Even to those that may seem a little intimidating.  Remember, DO NOT give up!  Keep praying and believing.  Then, watch and see how awesomely God moves in those situations.

Love,

Sis. Sandy

Dear AG,

My parents divorced when I was four. From the age of 4 - 15, I was a Pentecostal living with my dad. When I turned 16, I moved in with my mom. My mom doesn't believe the same way Apostolic Pentecostal's do. She thinks that they have a spirit of religion on them. Well when I moved in with my mom, I started to cut my hair and wear pants. Now that I've had a taste of the world, I want to come back to the Apostolic beliefs but am afraid of what my mom will think. Also, I've never been to a Apostolic Pentecostal church in Georgia. I've looked up a church on the UPCI church locator and the closest church to me is 9.6 miles away and I don't have a ride to get there. What should I do?

Sincerely,

Mommy's Girl

Dear Mommy's Girl,

I understand your predicament.  I, personally, went through a situation similar to yours when I was a teenager.  I wanted to live for God, AND at the same time, obey my parents (whom did not want me attending church).  I feel like the best thing to do is simply ask the Lord to intervene in this situation.  Pray BEFORE you sit down to ask her for permission to attend the church you feel lead to go to.  Ask the Lord to open her heart and help her to understand the desire you have.  When you do speak with your mom, calmly and sincerely, explain how you feel. Remember, the Lord makes a way when there seems to be no way.  And, even if she doesn't agree with you, initially. Don't give up on prayer!  You can still live the holy life that the Lord desires you to live.  Also, while being sweet and obeying your mom, allow the Lord to use you as a witness to her.    

As far as the church location, maybe a friend can pick you up.  Or, someone else at the church would be willing to pick you up.  Many churches have "bus ministries" for people just like you whom don't have a ride, but want to be at church.  You'd be amazed how the Lord works things out in our favor!  He could even touch your mom's heart, and give her the desire to come with you.  Nothing is too hard for God!

Praying for You,

Sis. Sandy

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